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Discover new things about your partner, deepen your connection, and unlock relationship advice and fun date night ideas with Lovewick’s Couples Card Game & Questions App. Get it free on Android & iOS.
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Did you know that opening up about feelings, beliefs, fantasies, and more with our partners is linked to lower rates of breakups, increased relationship satisfaction, and even greater sexual desire? Lovewick’s couples card game questions are here to make it fun, exciting, and easy to talk about topics that matter!
Use Lovewick’s couples card game however you see fit: learn what really turns you on; have deep conversations about difficult topics before taking the next step; enjoy questions as a party game on double dates or dinner parties with friends and family members; spice up happy hour at work using it as a conversation starter game; or simply deepen your understanding of each other over the course of an intimate date night.
Enjoy card game questions that are carefully written and curated to reflect your unique lifestyle and relationship dynamics, including LGBTQIA+, interfaith, long-distance, and more! Lovewick’s couples card game combines insights from therapists and academics with thousands of submissions from other couples inside the game for inclusive, relevant content.
Download Lovewick’s card game and get free, immediate access to our evergreen library of digital couples conversation questions – no need to buy expensive expansion packs or physical card decks! With Lovewick in your pocket, turn waiting for your food, game nights, long distance couples’ calls, or needing to pass a few hours on long drives into opportunities for meaningful connection!
Use Lovewick’s couples card game however you see fit: learn what really turns you on; have deep conversations about difficult topics before taking the next step; enjoy questions as a party game on double dates or dinner parties with friends and family members; spice up happy hour at work using it as a conversation starter game; or simply deepen your understanding of each other over the course of an intimate date night.
Enjoy card game questions that are carefully written and curated to reflect your unique lifestyle and relationship dynamics, including LGBTQIA+, interfaith, long-distance, and more! Lovewick’s couples card game combines insights from therapists and academics with thousands of submissions from other couples inside the game for inclusive, relevant content.
Share your answers aloud, or type them out as journal notes if long distance
Everyone wants to feel that the person they’re dating, in a relationship with, or married to genuinely cares about their internal world, but sometimes even the best conversationalists settle for small talk kinds of questions like “How was your day?” or even comfortable silence at the end of a long day. While it’s totally normal to catch up about your days and enjoy each other’s company in silence, it’s easy to fall into the trap of believing that you already know everything about each other. Especially as couples spend more time together and become best friends, we can forget to stay curious and go deeper. We never really know everything about our partners, though, and that’s a beautiful thing. So, what do you talk about when you feel like you’ve run out of things to say?
Lovewick’s fun card game is the perfect way to end small talk and learn more about your partner, keep the conversation flowing, and have deeper connections. Playing the couples card game is designed to prompt meaningful, thought-provoking conversations that help you explore wants and needs in a relationship, discover new ways to turn each other on, stay connected during busy times, and spark stories and discussions that might never have crossed your mind or come up otherwise.
With 1,000+ questions – and more being added to the game each week – Lovewick’s conversation starter cards are the perfect way to spice up your relationship and show each other that you always want to learn more about each other.
Explore your partner’s likes, dislikes, fantasies, and background with our conversation starter game’s six different topic decks: Affection & Sex, Beliefs & Values, Family & Home, Interests & Favorites, Personality & Habits, or Work & Money.
Lovewick’s “anytime decks” include over 1,000 unique cards. Each question is unique and engaging, incorporating suggestions from thousands of couples, insights from academic studies, and feedback from licensed therapists. The question cards within each of the game’s six topic decks are thoughtfully curated to balance silly and serious, avoid redundancies, and speak to the needs of a diversity of couples inclusively making it the ultimate game for couples.
Unlike traditional card games for couples, Lovewick’s decks are fully digital, which means they’re only a click away on your phone, it’s easy to attach insights to each question card with the integrated couple’s journal, and you’ll never lose track of which cards have already been played.
Getting started with Lovewick’s couples card game questions is simple: First, pick from one of the six topic decks, or draw a random card if you’re down for anything. Each card has an open-ended question on it, and players take turns answering each question. If you’re answering the card game together in real-time (in person, on the phone, or over video chat), you can dive straight into answering or take time to reflect on your answers first before each sharing.
If you’re apart, like in a long distance relationship or traveling separately, or just generally feel shy about answering right away, you can also play the couples card game asynchronously through journal notes on the question card. If your partner has their notifications on, they’ll get a note whenever you leave an answer on a question card, and you’ll get one when they reply with their answer as well!
As you play our question game for couples, you’ll also unlock relationship advice from licensed therapists and academic studies as well as fresh ideas for date night from the date night planner, ways to spice things up in the bedroom, or quick and easy gestures to show your partner you care. So, Lovewick’s couples card game questions don’t just spark great conversations; they’re a fun activity to create new memories as you connect on a deeper level and spend quality time together, too!
When taking the next step in your relationship – like meeting families, moving in together, getting engaged, or having your first child – it’s not always easy to know the right questions to ask or discuss beforehand. In fact, because every relationship is unique and you’ve never gone through that experience with that person before, it’s often hard for couples to anticipate what changes or adaptations could be made to really make that (exciting!) life transition smoothly. Research shows that conversations are way less likely to end in conflict when you’re in a calm, proactive mindset, rather than in the heat of the moment when boundaries are already being crossed or expectations unmet.
If you feel like you could use extra help navigating a specific conversation with your partner, we’ve got you. Lovewick is more than just a party game: collections work as conversation starters for couples to get deep about what matters most as they grow their in relationships and also have some fun along the way.
With Collections, you’ll be able to painlessly start up meaningful conversations about important topics, be guided through a series of questions to recognize your relationship strengths and potentially sensitive areas, and feel like you’re a team who’s on the same page as you enter the next stage of your relationship, not just winging it and hoping for the best!
Consider Collections your official checklist of important relationship questions to ask before taking the next step. It’s wonderful to get advice from family and friends, but every relationship is unique, and what worked for others may not work for you and your partner!
That’s why it’s best to open up a dialogue with your partner and really co-create a shared vision of what you want going forward. Each collection has been co-designed and reviewed by licensed therapists and also trialed with other couples in the Lovewick community before being published, making it one of the best conversation card games for couples to have more productive talks. This ensures that decks are comprehensive and inclusive, so you’ll be able to better understand you and your partner’s hopes, expectations, and worries, and feel confident that you’re making a decision that’s best for both of you.
If topics arise that you and your partner find difficult to discuss while playing, the card game questions work as a great tool in combination with relationship therapy or marriage counseling. For instance, maybe you were already planning on doing premarital counseling; going through the Lovewick “Getting Married” collection can prepare you to make the most of that precious time with a professional. Perhaps you learn from the collection that you’re totally aligned on 90% of the questions, but there are a few that leave you talking in circles – take them to your session to dig in and get support navigating those topics. Lovewick isn’t designed as therapy, but it can definitely complement and support therapy if that’s something you’re interested in!
Let’s face it – not everyone is in touch with their wants and needs in their individual lives, much less in their relationships, and mindfulness has benefits for both physical and mental health. At Lovewick, we believe in mindful love, and we want to help you cultivate that in a fun, playful way with our couples question card game!
Lovewick’s couples card game questions helps couples pause to reflect, given that conversation starters prompt introspection, and then facilitate meaningful conversations that allow couples of all backgrounds and histories to build more meaningful connections and communicate what matters most to them. By answering date deck questions as a game, you and your partner learn more about one another and yourselves and stay curious about each other no longer how long you’ve been together. If there are questions that seem “too easy”, for example, just swap and try to answer for each other and see how close you were!
From inside jokes, embarrassing stories, and weird quirks to long-term goals, desire, and hopes for your future life together, you’ll learn what makes your partner tick as you play Lovewick’s couples card game, so you get a deeper understanding and enrich your relationship, all while spending quality time together.
It’s no secret – developing trust is hard. Vulnerability and opening up can be scary, especially when past experiences have shown us that it’s not always safe to do that, or when a relationship is just starting out and there’s not yet a strong foundation.
But fostering deep, fulfilling relationships requires authenticity.
Remaining closed off in certain areas may help you feel protected against hurt or disappointment, but it can also stunt your relationship and lead to long-term misalignment. Lovewick’s party game for couples is an easy and lighthearted way to get out of your comfort zone and understand your special someone even better.
Lovewick’s couples question card game helps couples bring their whole selves to the table by giving them the opportunity to share and vent, work through problems together, and ultimately learn more about each other in a fun way with thought-provoking questions. With Lovewick question cards, you can slowly but surely close emotional distance in your love life, get more in touch with wants and needs, connect honestly, and even start to reconstruct negative narratives you may have about yourself or your value as a partner.
Conversation starters offered by Lovewick’s Discovery Cards game give couples context about why they are the way they are and, in doing so, help them develop both deeper empathy in the relationship and have more productive communication. Maybe your partner does something you find annoying or won’t back down about something that you think isn’t a big deal, but then you’re able to recall a story they shared in your last big talk sparked by the game about their childhood, past experiences, or fears that might be a big part of their reaction.
Instead of finger-pointing and seeing their behavior as irrational, the hope is that you can transition to getting curious, showing warmth, and tackling the issue as a team as you play through our games for couples.
Lovewick’s conversation card games for couples allow you to tap into how you’re both feeling while exploring hard topics, and communicate in an open, calm environment. Over time, these open-ended questions subconsciously train you and your partner to identify the root of problems, look for common ground in the bigger picture, and practice articulating and communicating feelings.
You’ll gain an understanding on topics that might have been sources of disagreement, have space to acknowledge and take responsibility for past mistakes, and also clarify how you’ll navigate these topics in the future.
Kickstart a healthy relationship habit. Practice simple, bite-sized mindfulness and make sure you’re on the same page by taking a “pulse” on your mood and recording notes on certain question cards as you play. This is completely optional, but Lovewick’s relationship tracker can help couples notice patterns, save insights or stories to refer to later, or even bring certain questions to process in a therapy session later, either individually or together.
Open-ended conversation cards inside the card game do more than spark meaningful conversations between you and your partner; question cards also serve as insightful prompts for self-reflection and journaling. Every card has a miniature journal entry section, and you can either type out or voice-to-text reflections and takeaways.
Whether it’s a funny story that you don’t want to forget, a moment of gratitude or appreciation that you want to sink in, or a need to table topics for further discussion later so you can move on to a different question, leaving a Pulse Journal entry inside our conversation card games gets the job done!
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